I was attending college when the U.S. joined other
countries in the war against Germany. My brothers and many of my high school
and college friends were enlisting. The same was true for my campus sweetheart,
Mike. We had often talked about getting married someday when we had graduated.
But now Mike felt so strongly that if he had a wife to come
home to, instead of a girlfriend, he would make it back home safe and sound.
I guess it was fortunate that we spent his last weekend pass getting married
because, after spending over a year on the front lines, Mike was safely home
at last!
As he said: "I've got to get back to civilian life,
and you have to get used to me as a husband, instead of that young trumpet
player who came down off the stage to jitterbug with a cute red-head I spotted!
Only---guess this is as good a time as any to tell you that I'm not quite
home for good yet. After we made peace with Germany, I fully expected to
continue on toward Japan. Then the war with Japan also ended. I found out
on the boat home that I am just 5 points short for enough to be discharged.
And guess what - that Purple Heart I turned down was worth exactly 5
points."
"What Purple Heart? You never told me you were
wounded."
"Oh, it was nothing much. I just dove into a fox
hole to escape enemy fire and it happened to be covered with barb wire. I
saw too many really wounded. Now they deserved that Purple Heart. I didn't
know it would have helped me finish my tour of duty several months
sooner! Dottie, I just thought of something else you have to know
right away! I'll still jitterbug with you. But - after walking clear across
Germany, I plan to never walk anywhere again unless it's absolutely
necessary!"
A week or so later, Mike had to report for duty
at an army base near Durham, N.C.. I followed right along after him. The town
people welcomed the soldiers' wives and rented part of their homes to us.
My room even had a small kitchen area. There wasn't much for me to do during
the day. I spent lots of time sitting on the front steps talking to my landlady's
little girl. One day, a cute little colored girl walked by and I asked if
she was coming here to play.
"My goodness. No. She's colored. I can't even speak
to her!"
I told Mike about it that night. He said:
"I certainly am sorry to hear that. You know, there
were a lot of my buddies in the army that were colored. Some of them didn't
make it home either. Makes you wonder how their Welcome Home is going to
be. Guess it's not the time to make waves though."
When Mike got to be with me for the next week-end,
we took a bus to look at Duke University campus. We spent the whole day
walking----so much for my husband's plans to never walk again! I guess making
me happy qualified as absolutely necessary!